Frequently asked questions

systemic counseling · couple counseling · diversity counseling · relationship coaching · resilience coaching · organisation coaching ·

systemic counseling · couple counseling · diversity counseling · relationship coaching · resilience coaching · organisation coaching ·

  • Clients typically contact me when facing a challenge, be it at work, in their relationships or with their health and wellbeing. Common topics are

    • Dealing with emotions, for example: feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unfulfilled, stressed, lacking purpose or lonely.

    • Struggling with self-defeating beliefs (e.g. “I’m not enough”, “I’m not good enough”, “I’ll never find love”, “I’m not worthy”).

    • Self-defeating behaviours (e.g. isolation, avoidance, overthinking, addictive behaviour, being "out of control").

    • In the face of new beginnings, during transition phases, stagnation periods, facing crossroads. Also when faced with grief, loss, heartbreak or conflict, being inner conflicts and with others.

    • Identity challenges: who am I, where do I belong, what am I worth, also in light of sexual and gender diversity or any diverse trait.

  • Yes and no.

    Just like myself, many of my clients belong to marginalised communities. This allows us to understand and authentically relate to each other as well as build trust more easily, find inspiration, value and meaning in our shared experience. In sessions, I don’t shy away from sharing my own personal story as well as resources that worked out well for me with my clients. This way they may benefit also from the insights and knowledge I've acquired through my experience in dealing with hardships and overcoming all sorts of challenges and struggles. I'm also working in the field of diversity and inclusion at the workplace, so it makes sense that many of my clients are LGBTIQA+, people who are racialised, migrants, neurodiverse people and so on.

    That said, I have clients from all walks of life and I welcome people with all sorts of experiences.

  • Most people much rather offer help than ask for it. It has much to do with pride. So many of us were taught to rely only on themselves. Yet some of them come to feel that this belief is holding them back.

    At first, most of my clients struggled with their challenges on their own, before they sought support fron others. For many of them the very act of reaching out was transformational.

    It is ok to struggle and It's ok to try and sort things out all by our own! However, some of us grind ourselves to exhaustion while trying at all costs and that's both counter-productive and unkind towards ourselves! There are other options. We don't have to strain ourselves.

    It's an essential resource to know when to reach out for support outside our ourselves. Some people call it (getting) "help for self-help".

  • Personal development and growth is work just like any other type of work. There's no hocus pocus invlolved. Change happens when you allocate resources like time and effort to enable it.

    My work consists of perspective-changing conversations, held with love and care, as well as sharing tools, technics and skills with my clients. For some people working on small assignments in the time between our sessions makes a lot of sense.

    My experience has taught me that working with the right tools (what "right" is different to each person) clients notice how all of a sudden it becomes much easier to get where they want to get to.

    I live by the motto “progress not perfection”. This allows transformational work to be enjoyable work.

    The only thing you need is a mindset. Be willing to put in the effort, keen to learn and open to invite positive change and commit to it. This attitude is all you need.

  • Transparency is important to me, especially when it comes to pricing. My goal is to offer socially sustainable, community-oriented, and flexible pricing that makes counseling and coaching accessible and fair, while ensuring sustainability for both you and me.

    I offer two pricing models, community pricing and regular pricing, as well as packages and special offers.


    COMMUNITY PRICING

    Community pricing is for anyone navigating tighter financial situations, such as freelancers, students, or individuals from underrepresented or marginalized communities. The following sliding-scale rates are available to support accessibility:

    • 90-minute session: €90-120

    • 60-minute session: €70-90


    You get to decide the exact amount within the sliding-scale, based on what feels manageable. Those who can contribute more are encouraged to pay more. Those who need more flexibility are invited to pay less.

    Click here to book a session or if you need more information, schedule a free 15-minutes call with me. I’ll send you a confirmation email with flexible payment options. Additionally, you can book packages, bundles, events and special offers on my Shopify page.


    Should I book a 60-minute or a 90-minute session?

    For your first session, you can decide whether 60 minutes will be enough to discuss your topics, wishes, and goals for the counseling process, or if you’d prefer to book a 90-minute appointment instead.

    Couples counseling (or any session involving multiple people) is always 90 minutes long.

    A Few Guidelines to Keep in Mind


    1. Cancellations: In case you need to cancel or reschedule, please let me know as soon as possible and at least 24 hours before our appointment. For changes made less than 24 hours in advance, a €50 fee will apply to respect the time we’ve set aside. Thank you for understanding.

    2. Choosing a Rate: Once you select your rate within the sliding-scale, I kindly ask you to stick to it or increase it if your circumstances improve. This helps make my services sustainable for me and affordable for others.

    3. Special Payment Needs: If you have unique needs or concerns regarding payment, feel free to reach out. We can explore solutions together.

    4. Ending the Process: If, during our counseling process, you feel ready to close the process or if you decide not to continue for any reason, it’s important to me that we have one final closing session to bring the process to a meaningful conclusion for both of us.

    REGULAR PRICING


    My regular rates for companies, individuals and couples are:

    • 90-minute session: €150

    • 60-minute session: €100


    These rates apply to:

    • Companies or organizations who cover costs for their employees.

    Senior management or executive clients.

    Individuals and couples for whom finances are not a concern.

    Book sessions on my Shopify page, where you’ll also find packages, bundles, events and special offers. Schedule an appointment on my booking page.


    PACKAGES, BUNDLES & SPECIAL OFFERS


    To provide a more cost-effective option and support continuity in your journey, I offer value-packed session packages.

    Packages prices depend on the number of sessions you choose, on availability, and any special offers. You can find details on my Shopify page.

    Depending on current capacity, I offer bundles too, including unlimited WhatsApp check-ins between sessions.

    Sign up for my free love newsletter to get updates on offers, events and other added-value content.

✓ individual counseling ✓ couple counseling ✓ family counseling ✓ system counseling

✓ individual counseling ✓ couple counseling ✓ family counseling ✓ system counseling

counseling

online or in my practice in Cologne

What needs to change? what limits you?

Let’s figure it out together!

Changes can propel us forward and feel exciting. Other times we find ourselves feeling lost, stuck or overwhelmed in the light of change - or in the absence of it.
Whether you're navigating a transition in any area of your life or seeking to take the first step towards change, I'm here to support you on your journey, help you lighten your emotional load and experience relief.
Through profound self-reflection we engage in self-discovery of your values, beliefs system and strengths.
At the end of the counseling process, you'll have gained clarity, new perspectives and confidence, strengthened your resources, and seen all the options your need to move forward, towards where you want to be.

What’s been on your mind lately?

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✓ individual coaching ✓ senior staff coaching ✓ team coaching

Coaching

online or in my practice in Cologne

what do you want to achieve? WHAT ARE YOUR DREAMS?

Let’s work it out together!

As my client, I’ll support and empower you in creating positive changes in your life and environment, guiding you in setting goals that align with your values, dreams and wishes for yourself.
First we’ll work on getting all the clarity you need, then we’ll tackle decision-making processes, so that each choice is mindful and effective.
We’ll draft measurable and manageable action plans, for steady progress and results. You’ll stay motivated in every step of the way, as I’ll be providing you with the accountability and support you need. You’ll acquire the tools you need on your way, build confidence in your abilities, enhance your communication skills and strengthen your resources.
Any life area that needs more love, will reveal itself.

What’s your vision for a full life?

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Our session will be

  • online or in person

    I receive clients in my practice in Cologne, Germany. Out-of-town and international clients can participate in sessions from the comfort of their home.

  • first session

    In our first session we’ll be assessing your current situation, topics, wishes and goals. It’s non-binding, so we can decide if we’re a good match.

  • personalized

    The sessions will be tailored to your needs. I offer counselling as well as coaching, for individuals, couples and families. Your needs shape & inform the work we do.